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Bhavana Shivu's avatar

I would like to take this thought further and claim that in this day and age, it is the narcissistic personality disorder people who become successful and regular people are shamed to believe that they are less than. This shaming could lead to career loss and cancellation of sensitive people who are in turn diagnosed as mentally ill. Meaning they can’t fit in this world. The options are then to lose your careers and be told that we are good for nothing and need to isolate ourselves or become better individuals so as to better fit in this society. For instance people who survive a sexual abuse or workplace sexual harassment are then sidelined and live their lives as losers and don’t get an opportunity to ever enhance their self esteem. They can no longer face this world and even fall in their own eyes and can go down a spiral and have no way to prove themselves as they have been cancelled. How will such people find a platform to prove themselves. I am one such person who lost her career to extreme patriarchy and authoritarianism in the scientific community in India. I still have not recovered my self esteem fully even though I received a green card as an extraordinary scientist. I still don’t have a job and was considered a failure and poor by my family members. What would you say to such people Dr. Rogoff?

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JaneLovesItAll's avatar

As a coach and MSc student in Psychology, I truly appreciate your incisive analysis, Dr Rogoff. What springs to mind here is the fact that many 'hard-core' narcissists, due to the societal reward factors you often mention, plus the nature of their disorder, never end up in a clinical or therapeutic setting. They get away with it, so to speak. And so, we end up in a sort of feedback loop, with capitalism enabling it. How DO we break out of this?

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